Trauma-Friendly Meditation
All classes are lead by a our meditation facilitator and held virtually on Zoom. Meditation can be an integral part of healing for trauma survivors, and an integral part of every day life for virtually anyone.
We offer traditional live group classes on Zoom on a monthly basis, and a self-paced version completely online that you can begin anytime.
Live Group Calls - Traditional Program
Online Self-Paced Program
What does "trauma-friendly" mean?
From your facilitator, Adam Friedman: I sometimes describe this meditation as the opposite of mindfulness. In mindfulness meditation, the goal is to focus on something (breath, sensations, thoughts) to put yourself in the present moment. This can be life-changing, but focusing is difficult for many people so it is easy to feel like you are failing at it. People who have experienced childhood trauma often have serious issues with self-worth, so failing at something can activate their harsh inner critic.
In this type of meditation you learn to basically put your mind on autopilot, so there is no goal to focus on. In fact there is no goal at all. When there is no goal, you cannot fail. This often disengages the vicious inner critic that is common in trauma survivors.
What is trauma-informed about this class?
The meditation technique was not specifically designed for people with CPTSD, but it is very helpful to many people who have CPTSD. After I developed the class, I reviewed the course to see where there could be any perception of a power and control dynamic between the teacher and students. I then adjusted elements of the class to reduce this dynamic wherever I could as it can be triggering for trauma survivors. I could explain different ways I did this, but I think one person summarized what I was trying to do well in a class testimonial when they wrote, “I felt safe, comfortable and welcome each time. Each step of the way you left me in the driver’s seat to choose what I wanted to do – for example, to share if I wanted or not, to continue meditation if I wanted, to show my face on Zoom. All was absolutely no pressure. Your knowledge of trauma helped a lot in making this class work for me.”
In addition to these adjustments, I incorporated a couple of grounding techniques into the class that some meditation teachers I know who teach high trauma populations use to help ease trauma survivors into meditation.
Program Information
Please watch the first two videos from the course before deciding whether to enroll 7 minutes total).
The way I teach this course in person or on zoom is to teach the first four classes on consecutive days (usually Monday through Thursday.) If you do the self-paced course, I highly recommend doing the course this way for a couple of reasons:
- As I explain in the first video above, the theory behind this meditation technique is counterintuitive. This can be summarized in five words, “You can’t do it wrong.” This can be difficult to grasp if you have practiced other forms of meditation. Much of the course consists of me explaining this concept in different ways so that by the second or third day of the class, people usually get it. If you spread out the classes, you are more likely to be meditating for days with a misunderstanding of the technique and then give up.
- One great thing about this class is that people with Complex PTSD usually experience benefits in their life very quickly. (You can browse through the first 90 testimonials from the survey I send out HERE to see what this looks like one month after people start the course.) In the fourth class, when people have only been doing this meditation for a few days, I ask if anyone has seen any changes in their life. There is always someone who has. So after only 3 days of doing this meditation technique you might see a positive change in your life. I know that sounds crazy, but I’ve seen it over and over. For both selfish and unselfish reasons I want your life to improve quickly.
What you will learn in each class session:
- Day 1 (45 minutes): For this meditation technique, you learn to let go of your attention and put it on autopilot. When you do that, thoughts and feelings will spontaneously arise. Practicing this meditation involves practicing accepting what comes up. Through this you can become more accepting of your mind as it is and who you are as a person.
- Day 2 (35 minutes): How to accept what comes up in your mind.
- Day 3 (35 minutes): Additional concepts that support acceptance.
- Day 4 (30 minutes): Review of Class 1-3 as well as some additional concepts and development of your personal meditation plan.
- Day 5 (25 minutes): After you have been meditating for a little over a week, we introduce an additional concept which can be very helpful.
- Day 6 (22 minutes): Ensuring you are more solidified in your meditation before introducing another concept which can be helpful.
- Day 7 (35 minutes): Now that you have been meditating for a month, the concepts in this class may resonate differently, so this class will focus on summarizing them.
These classes are completely free. Registration on first come first served basis each month when a new class opens up.
We facilitate a validating and encouraging atmosphere on every call, free from bullying, invalidation, or minimizing. Everyone is respected, encouraged, and validated for who they are.
In order to participate in this program, you agree that you’ve read, understand, accept, and will abide by all rules & guidelines at all times. These are also linked on the program calls and referenced on the check out page.
Adam talks about the classes
Adam, your meditation facilitator, is here to share more on how the classes work and what you can expect on Day 1 and the remaining days of each monthly class.
Adam worked as an advertising copywriter before transitioning to a career in social services. He has since worked for organizations that help the homeless, people returning from incarceration, domestic violence survivors, individuals on welfare and military veterans. He has meditated regularly since the 1990’s, gone on many silent meditation retreats and has taught meditation in New York City jails; at nonprofits including a drug treatment center and homeless shelter; to therapists and to other individuals interested in the benefits of meditation.
Testimonials
The class has affected me greatly. It has taught me a new technique but more than that it has given me the opportunity to heal. As I meditate, new information has surfaced helping me to understand what causes my episodes. Adam’s demeanor and professionalism throughout have been fantastic. More than that, his compassion and genuine interest in teaching others is beyond. I am very grateful to have met him. He has changed my life in a positive direction
It makes me feel good and safer to know that I have another tool I can use in my healing process. I also liked the sense of community felt by interacting with others having similair challenges. I really appreciated Adam’s care and support. He has a healing energy that I felt safe around which I think can be be rare.
Although I struggle with being disciplined about committing to the time for meditating, the effects are noticeable. I am more composed, regulated, and am more present when I take the time out to do a meditation
I have greater sense of being alert, present and calm during the day. I notice my days are longer. Dissociation has been lower. I am doing more activities in my community.
When I start my day with meditation, I’m calmer and feel more centered and grounded throughout the day
Feel calmer and less reactive, though that could be attributed to multiple things. This kind of meditation feels more accessible to me.