What Are The Roles in Dysfunctional Family Systems?

A Short Childhood Story I was finally old enough to go to school and get away from my mother’s screaming, beatings, and sexual abuse. My older brother and I smiled together as we got on the school bus that day. We were both glad to be getting away. First grade was the...

Silencing Your Inner Critic From Attachment Trauma

  Did you know there’s a difference between feeling bad about making a poor choice versus experiencing feelings of worthlessness as part of your core sense of Self? And, the differences can be summed up as either examining the situation as separate from who you feel...
Scapegoated!

Scapegoated!

Scapegoated!  (as published in The Friday Edition of HeartBalm Healing at https://heartbalm.substack.com) For the adult who blames themselves – who see things go wrong around them and perceives the familiar feelings of self-blame, guilt, shame, and “it’s my fault”...

Courage, Self-Love and Complex Trauma (CPTSD)

Complex trauma is an amalgamation of long-term abuse and neglect, and therefore when trying to understand a traumatic past from an adult perspective it reveals itself as a confusing mosaic of multi-layered events, scattered along our timeline from the non-verbal stage...

Genetic Pathcutting and the Spiritual Implications of Infant Trauma

On the path of awakening or Spiritual Ascension, the first stages for spiritual healing include emotional and mental body clearing of these accumulated soul memories that are recorded from both the patriarchal and matriarchal lineages of a person’s family and...