When Being “Good” Hurts: The Doormat Syndrome

When Being “Good” Hurts: The Doormat Syndrome

Setting Boundaries and Protecting Your Peace of Mind: Yes, because of my CPTSD, I was a people-pleaser. This was like a survival-mode I learned as a child. And that doormat syndrome was often painful for me, for many years. Until one day, I had had enough and decided...
The Hidden Legacy of Relational Trauma: Breaking Free from Codependency and Complex PTSD

The Hidden Legacy of Relational Trauma: Breaking Free from Codependency and Complex PTSD

I have often been asked why I am an outspoken writer, willing to tackle thorny and difficult issues well beyond my usual scope of mystical interest. In an era of stifling correctness that governs much of the media, it would be career-savvy to “stay in my lane.” So why...
When the Client’s Body Reacts, but the Story Isn’t True

When the Client’s Body Reacts, but the Story Isn’t True

Tears, tremors, and vivid descriptions can be compelling. They are not proof. In complex trauma, memory is less a film reel and more a patchwork of emotional flashbulbs, fragments, and protective edits. Somatic reactions tell us that something mattered to the nervous...