The Hidden Legacy of Relational Trauma: Breaking Free from Codependency and Complex PTSD

The Hidden Legacy of Relational Trauma: Breaking Free from Codependency and Complex PTSD

I have often been asked why I am an outspoken writer, willing to tackle thorny and difficult issues well beyond my usual scope of mystical interest. In an era of stifling correctness that governs much of the media, it would be career-savvy to “stay in my lane.” So why...
When the Past Cracks Open: Navigating Repressed CSA Memories in Adulthood

When the Past Cracks Open: Navigating Repressed CSA Memories in Adulthood

For most of my life, I had no reason to question my past. I had warm childhood memories, a solid understanding of who I was, and no indication that something darker lurked beneath the surface. But then, seemingly out of nowhere, my mind cracked open, and pieces of a...
Trauma? Not Me

Trauma? Not Me

Trauma is a word or a concept that does not resonate with everyone. This is especially true for those of the older generation. Many in the older generations, like my mother’s age (70’s and above), say things like, “That was just life…it was what it was,” and that is...

Roles in Dysfunctional Family Systems Part II-Parentification

For part one of this series see What are The Roles in Dysfunctional Families Systems? A Short Childhood Story My brother glanced at me as we “read” the emotional temperature of the room. What was tonight going to be like? My mother already had one of those frowns on...