With Patience and Perseverance: Renewing My Faith On My Terms

With Patience and Perseverance: Renewing My Faith On My Terms

Writer’s Note: This article discusses topics related to spiritual abuse. My purpose in sharing my story is not to single out any specific faith. While my negative experiences occurred within Christianity, it is important to recognize that religious abuse can happen in...
What Your Family Didn’t Say Still Got Passed Down

What Your Family Didn’t Say Still Got Passed Down

There is a stubborn belief, especially in pull-yourself-up cultures, that if something did not happen directly to you, it should not affect you. People want to assume trauma stops with the person who first lived it. That is not how trauma works. Not biologically. Not...

The Ongoing Journey of Healing from Child Abuse

TRIGGER WARNING: Topics in this article include childhood sexual abuse and may be sensitive to readers.  At the beginning of  July, I received a package: copies of my book and promotional material.  I danced around my flat, my heart racing with excitement and...