What Your Family Didn’t Say Still Got Passed Down

What Your Family Didn’t Say Still Got Passed Down

There is a stubborn belief, especially in pull-yourself-up cultures, that if something did not happen directly to you, it should not affect you. People want to assume trauma stops with the person who first lived it. That is not how trauma works. Not biologically. Not...
Epigenetic Trauma: Predators, Abuse, and Ancestral Healing

Epigenetic Trauma: Predators, Abuse, and Ancestral Healing

Trigger Warning: This article contains stories of abuse; reader discretion is advised. “Be careful whom you trust; evil cloaks itself in many forms.” What is love if it doesn’t hurt, or like in my case, crash with a whimper? Perhaps your first crush was like...
The Death of A Narcissist

The Death of A Narcissist

It’s something every survivor of childhood trauma dreads: the death of their abuser. No one has any idea how they are going to react. Will you be awash in regret? How about grief? The losses incurred dealing with a narcissistic parent over a lifetime complicate...
Breaking Free Of The Cycle: Healing Family Karma

Breaking Free Of The Cycle: Healing Family Karma

Who am I? Growing up, I was a child with trust issues due to emotional and physical abuse. Then, at 18, I was assaulted on a date. Trauma often leaves invisible scars. While most physical wounds can heal, mental and emotional wounds run deep. I have faced many traumas...

The Ongoing Journey of Healing from Child Abuse

TRIGGER WARNING: Topics in this article include childhood sexual abuse and may be sensitive to readers.  At the beginning of  July, I received a package: copies of my book and promotional material.  I danced around my flat, my heart racing with excitement and...